Why Are You Tolerating Manipulative Communication?

In this episode, Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski discuss the importance of not tolerating manipulative communication. They explore what it means to show intolerance toward manipulative behaviors and how this affects your personal and professional life. They guide listeners through seven thought-provoking questions designed to help identify and set boundaries against various forms of manipulation. The conversation emphasizes the significance of recognizing manipulative patterns and acting decisively to not endorse such behavior. Throughout, the hosts provide practical examples and advice on handling manipulators effectively.

Topics

00:49 Defining Intolerance in Communication
02:15 The Cost of Tolerating Manipulation
02:56 Thought-Provoking Exercise: Seven Questions
04:40 Question 1: Tolerating Lies
08:22 Question 2: Disparaging Comments
10:53 Question 3: Interruptions
12:45 Question 4: Appropriating Ideas
15:26 Question 5: Representing Your Perspectives
18:00 Question 6: Obligating You to Tasks
21:01 Question 7: Immediate Responses for Non-Emergencies
23:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts