Is It Really ’For Your Own Good’?

In this episode, Robin and Dennis discuss the often-heard phrase 'It's for your own good' and question its true intentions. They explore how advice, feedback, rules, and teachings can be manipulative, particularly in groups such as cults, cliques, and teams. The discussion focuses on the importance of discernment, trust, and autonomy to avoid being manipulated. They emphasize the need for curiosity, courage, and questioning to understand whether something truly benefits you. The episode also highlights a worksheet and upcoming virtual workshops available on their website, outwitinrealtime.com, designed to help individuals develop personal policies against manipulation.

You can find the book, Outwitting the Manipulator, on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Outwitting-Manipulator-Protecting-Yourself-Real-Time/dp/1953806244

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Topics

01:33 The Concept of 'For Your Own Good'

03:19 Defining 'Your Own Good'

05:01 Trust and Advice

06:42 Human Nature and Altruism

11:05 Trust in Different Contexts

14:19 Understanding Trust as an Adult

16:23 The Role of Parents in Building Trust

17:56 Impact of Parenting Styles

21:24 Developing Personal Policies

23:50 The Power of Curiosity and Courage

29:39 Final Thoughts and Workshop Invitation